Signs Your Guy Means it When He Says He Loves You
The doubt is always there about a guy whether he is really in love with you or is he just trying to get into some easy sex by getting into your pants? Does he mean it sincerely when he says I love you? The signs below can be used to find out if he really means it or not.
The foremost aim of a guy while he pursues a girl is to make her fall for him. There are chances that he might have fallen in love with her or even infatuated with her, or the primary aim could be to make her fall for some quick pleasurable sex. Whatever his intention might be he'd say just about anything to make the girl he likes to fall for him!
Even if the guy is truly in love with you, he means to get you fall in love with him or make try to have quick and easy sex with you? You have to identify his intentions when he says he loves you. You can see through his words and find out if he truly loves you. But there are a few clear cues and signs he'd give away that can help to identify his intentions. The chances are, he slips his hands into your shorts as he says he loves you. He's definitely trying to impress you to flatter you or impress you so as to unbutton your shorts for him to make his intention easy!
Why guys say "I love you" even if they don't mean it
For any guy, sex is the utmost aim and that is just that. Emotions need not be attached to these intentions. For a girl, it is totally different as sex is always entwined with emotions and love. All guys are aware of this point. When he promises that he's in love with her, he's telling something that the girl is eagerly waiting to listen but he's mixing sexual pleasure with the promise of fraud emotional attachment.
Three different circumstances when a guy ideally says "I love you"
There are three different circumstances when a guy dates you when he would say that he loves you. There could be many more supplementary reasons, but mainly it can be summarised for 3 reasons.
#1 The prime reason is that he wants to have quick and easy sex with you by getting into your panties. He knows that you will agree being linked with some sort of commitment only.
#2 He's still confused about whether he's truly in love with you, he's trapped into saying it. He may really like you a lot but the confusion element is always there.
#3 He really loves you, the three words I LOVE YOU are sincerely meant when he says those three words. He could tell this in the beginning itself of your dating lane or a few months down the dating lane, but he still means it with all his heart and can be taken as a long-term sincere lover in his life.
Using his behaviour to find out if he loves you
As a girl, you have every right to be cautious to check when a guy says he loves you. There are chances that he is lying and he can break your heart someday to drive you to distress. But be sure, for all guys, the primary aim is not to get into your panties. You should take care when he is eager to introduce you to his friends? When you are not looking do you catch him staring at you when he thinks you're not looking?
14 signs your boyfriend really means it when he says "I love you"
In a new relationship if your boyfriend tells you that he loves you, keep an eye on these 14 signs here.
#1 Even if there is no pressure on him to express his love, he says it first. He declares his love when you least expect it and in this case you can be sure that he doesn't expect sex in return.
#2 He conveys his feelings through his eyes. When he says he loves you, he stares into your eyes tenderly and lovingly.
#3 If he really loves you he will squeeze you all over including your fingers and arms when he says he loves you.
#4 He could be telling that he loves you attached with a long passionate kiss. Again you can expect him to come closer and closer again and continues to kiss you for several more seconds.
#5 He holds your hands gently sitting next to him and plays with your fingers or strokes them while saying "I love you."
#6 He gives you a cosy hug which is really affectionate. Also he kisses your neck while saying how much he loves you.
#7 When you least expect it. You have been thinking that this guy's main intention is to sleep with you, but suddenly comes up with the statement that he loves you when he thinks you're expecting to hear it.
#8 He sounds serious. He may look straight into your eyes, and tells you matter-of-factly that he loves you. The tone of his voice would reveal just how serious he is.
#9 He looks vulnerable. If he's just trying to get into her pants a guy won't reveal his vulnerable side to a girl. He'd try to play it cool or act cocky instead.
#10 Close proximity. When both of you are all alone and sitting really close to each other, a guy who loves you can't hold his loving words back
#11 When he does something special. He gives you special gifts as something special to show his feelings for you, accompanied with an "I love you."
#12 Jealous love. When he feels insecure because you're flirting with some other guy, has this guy ever told you how much he loves you when you're having a petty fight?
Just how much you mean to him and how much it hurts him to see you with someone else.
#13 He says that he loves you in the same sentence, that's a good sign that he means it, he talks about the future.
#14 Your intuition. It may be too early in the relationship to know if he really loves you for sure. This is as simple as it gets. Your guy may not reveal all these signs here.
Check if your guy really means it when he says "I love you" using these 14 signs to find out. Even if you can't see all these signs when he says he loves you, you'd surely see more than a handful.