How to Use a Vibrator For Intense Orgasms

You are missing out on a lot of orgasms and pleasure if you don't yet know how to use a vibrator. Using a vibrator is the perfect addition to both masturbating and your regular sex life. In fact, it might give you an orgasm if you've never had one before, and some women are only able to cum while using one! This guide is going to teach you exactly how to use a vibrator along with what techniques work best. 


Choosing the right vibrator for you.

Getting prepped so you achieve maximum enjoyment.
You can have back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms with the actual techniques that you can use with your vibrator to choose the right vibrator for you.

Before learning how to use a vibrator, you want to choose the one, and there are a couple of vital factors to take into consideration:

Power – You have to make sure it's powerful enough which is the most important factors that you have to take care while you are selecting a vibrator. Most likely you'll need a more powerful vibrator if you currently struggle to orgasm either during sex or masturbation and require a lot of intense stimulation to get yourself over the edge. This means that you'll need to avoid the cheap options which often don't deliver much stimulation. Stick with mid to high-end vibrators that include the likes of Lelo, WeVibe, the Hitachi Magic Wand, Sybian and well made "rabbit" style vibrators that will suit your purpose.

Modes & Settings – You should seriously check the modes and settings before spending money on a brand new vibe. The intensity of vibration can be adjusted with much premium type of vibrators. To get exactly the type of stimulation, premium brands allow you to customize it to your requirements.

On some vibrators, cycles of intensity can be varied. This means that the vibrator will automatically change how intense the vibrations are so that you feel pulses or waves of vibration repeatedly. Instead of a constant level of intensity, with adjustable cycles and intensity of vibration, most women find this to be a lot more pleasurable than with those having steady values.  So it can end up being too weak or too powerful, and there is nothing you can do to adjust it.

Shape – Shape of the vibrator is not very important for most of the women when using it. This is especially true for those who concentrate on clitoral stimulation and focusing your usage on the outside of your vagina. Obviously, the shape of your vibrator is important if you want penetration also.

Thankfully, most stores stock a large variety of shapes and sizes, from vibrators that look like small capsules (bullets) to penis shaped vibrators to smoother forms with bumps and curves in all the right places, so you'll always be able to find the right shape for your needs.

Noise – The last thing to touch on when choosing a vibrator is noise. If you share a house with others, you will naturally want to be discreet. A noisy, loud vibrator isn't going to help you achieve this! My advice is to avoid the cheaper, less well-made vibrators, you want a quiet one.


Prepping for maximum pleasure
Before getting down to business to ensure you enjoy maximum orgasmic pleasure once you've got a good vibrator, there are a few things to be taken care of. The first and most important thing is understanding what turns you on and makes you horny. This could involve things like:

Having a long, hot bath beforehand.

Reading your favourite erotica.

Setting the mood in your room with the right music, scents, and lighting

Performing some foreplay on yourself. These masturbation tips should help.

Watching porn if that's your thing.

Having a glass of wine.

Ultimately, you need to do what works for you. So if there is something not mentioned here, but it gets you horny-as-hell, then do that instead. You can find more great ideas to make yourself horny in this guide as well as tips to increase your sex drive in this article.

You should know your body intimately so that you understand the exact buttons you need to press. For achieving maximum pleasure, this will bring you over the edge into an ocean of orgasmic bliss which is the important strategy. 


How to use a vibrator – 9 various techniques to be used for optimum use.
The techniques as explained below figure out which ones work best for you.

1. Vibrator foreplay

Start by softly dragging your vibrator over your most sensitive erogenous areas. These are places like your breasts and nipples and the inside of your thighs. It is seen that for some people, they find that vibrations respond well to their neck, lips, stomach and even the inside of their elbows (really!).

Start focusing more on your thighs and vagina, but don't apply your vibrator to your vagina just yet as you are just starting to get aroused. Until your body is crying out for more direct contact, keep teasing yourself by gently trailing your vibrator around it, running it over the outside of your labia and above your clitoris. 

2. Gentle teasing

Gentle Teasing is similar to the previous technique, except this time you will be focusing more directly on your vagina but only making very light contact.

The vibrator is slowly applied starting by applying the tip of your vibrator to the bottom of your vagina and slowly dragging it upwards towards your clit. Slowly drag it back down once you reach the top of your vagina, above your clit. It is not yet finished even though with this technique, your body will be crying out for more pressure and intensity. Maintain a "feather-light" touch for as long as possible.

3. Clitoral focus

Now it's time to use your vibrator on your clit! Start applying direct pressure to the clitoris as you move the tip of your vibrator over your clitoris.

There are different things that you can do here to maximise your pleasure:

You may prefer to push the tip of your vibrator into a particular side of your clit.

You may prefer to rub it over and back on your clit.

Circling your clit might be done slowly or rapidly, left to your choice.

By applying minimum pressure, you may prefer to keep softly teasing yourself.

4. Clitoral hood

Some women find that direct contact on their clitoris is too intense and can even be painful. There is a simple solution if you fall into this category, there are so many that fall into the same category.

You need to use the clitoral hood as a buffer. 

5. Coming in from below

This technique is universally popular as you will be able to stimulate the entire outside of your vagina with it. You need to press the full length of the vibrator against your vagina. The top of your vibrator should be pressed against your clit, while the length of the vibrator is pressed against your vagina/labia and the bottom of your vibrator should be at the lower part of your vagina.

If you squeezed your legs together in this position, you would easily be able to keep your vibrator in place.

6. Cum inside

While all the previous techniques involved the outside of your vagina, it's now time to think about what's on the inside. For this, you need a vibrator that can enter your vagina, also you need a vibrator that is somewhat penis shaped.

Using your natural lubrication or some lube that you purchased, coat your vibrator with it and slowly push it inside your vagina. It can be very pleasurable to simply leave your vibrator to sit inside your vagina. The pleasure spots can be particularly your G Spot and Skene's gland area along with your A Spot, which can cause orgasms continuously by using the vibrator. To apply pressure to the most sensitive spots in the area you'll find it much more enjoyable. 

7. Add your fingers to the mix

Just because you are using a vibrator doesn't mean that you can't also use your fingers. In fact, doing so only adds more pleasure to the mix. 

8. Use your vibrator for better sex

See vibrators as "marital aids", as such is a good idea as it will help such couples having marital problems due to difficulty in getting orgasms. Using a vibrator can help a lot to reach orgasm during penetration. If you currently struggle to orgasm during sex. 

9. During blow jobs and hand jobs

During a blow job or hand job, a vibrator can give him good pleasure, in addition to using a vibrator on your man during sex. 


Warning
There is also a dark side to them that some women fall prey to, while vibrators work to enhance most women's sex lives. Over time, if you consistently use your vibrator instead of other means to masturbate and orgasm, your body will begin to adjust to the strength of your vibrator. When you switch back to using only your hands, many women notice that they can't possibly provide as much pleasure as your vibrator can, making it much harder to orgasm.

The same is true for regular sex. This dependency on your vibrator for sex life can be frustrating and even doctors advise to take care of this possibility.