Dirty Ways To Have The Sexiest Rough Sex
Using dirty ways you can proceed to have rough sex, whatever you need to know about this is stated here. And you can use these 15 types of rough sex to make it a lot sexier too! Rough sex is subjective. What's rough to one person could be tame to another. If somebody known to you tells that they are having rough sex, don't assume that you know what they do in bed.
What is rough sex?
Rough sex is the type of sex where you involve pain in the sexual act, to increase sexual pleasure! You show off your brute strength and lust through sexual release at the same time. Rough sex is not something most people talk about easily, but yet, it's something all of us could enjoy if done the right way. As a newcomer in this field, mixing up romantic lovemaking with all that sexual aggression could sound alarming, but slowly that'll all change once you understand the little nuances of passionate rough sex. Firstly, rough sex is best enjoyed with a partner you trust. Both of you know each other's limitations and capabilities, and it's easy to know where to draw the line
The psychological thrill of rough sex
One of the sexier things about rough sex is how contagious it is in bed. Anytime if one partner happens to claw the partner's back, the rage will pass on and will subconsciously force them to reciprocate your rough moves with their own. This can lead to a heightened sexual experience for both of you. But rough sex isn't for everyone, especially the ones who have had bad experiences with it. Even in a long-term relationship, an occasional round of rough sex can increase the passion. People who love rough sex get the sexual high, more from the pain they experience than the sexual pleasure they feel. Mixing rough sex with routine lovemaking in relationships is definitely not a bad thing because every once in a while, a change can make lovemaking a lot sexier and alive.
When you're genuinely having rough sex, the urge to enhance the sexual sensation is so overwhelming that even penetration can't satisfy you. You want to do more. The issue becomes passionate as even if there are hurt and pain you like it still. But rough sex isn't for everyone and every stage of a relationship. For a woman indulging in sex with somebody she trusts and loves is more comfortable. She knows she will be judged without having a one night stand with a really sexy guy she's been waiting to get into bed with for a while.
Dominant and submissive rough sex
Rough sex is rough sex, but even when two people indulge in it, they can take on two different kinds of roles. Partners take turns in the rough sex to experience the physical pain and get aroused by it. If you're more dominant in the relationship or in real life and have a career or a lifestyle where you're not pushed around much, you may enjoy submissive rough sex more than other people. It's your mind's way of craving for a release from the responsibility and the control. The psychological release of control makes you enjoy your orgasm better. On the other hand, a lover who plays a submissive part in the relationship or in real life may get more pleasure by taking control in bed or by playing the dominant partner while having rough sex. It does not require that you abuse each other or show power over your partner in rough sex. It can be used as a psychological release, just as long as you practice it in a controlled environment and swap dominant and submissive sides often unless both of you prefer specific roles all the time.
Rough sex isn't always kinky sex
In rough sex you get extremely aroused, hence it can be considered as a kind of kinky sex unconventional, also it could just be a passionate tumble in the hay. Most kinds of kinky sex take some amount of planning and preparation, but rough sex almost never needs any planning, unless you plan to involve toys and other sexual paraphernalia. Beyond penetration there can be sexual arousal; it's the sexual arousal that's brought about by aggression.
A rough sex tip for the guys
Girls like rough sex. Of course, not all the time! But every now and then, a good round of rough sex can make them feel alive. Somehow, being dominated once in a while with aggression turns a girl on. A girl can be awed by utilizing a man's physical strength and animal-like aggression all the time! When you have rough sex with your girl, it shows off your confidence and your manly, wild side which can turn her on and rekindle the raw sexual desire in her. But how rough would she like it? Well, that's something you need to talk to her about.
Rough sex for the calm lover
If you're someone who isn't used to the idea of hurting a lover while making love in a controlled environment, the idea of rough sex may sound gross and appalling, even frightening. But you'd never know how powerful you feel or how sexually arousing the act can be until you try it.
You need not feel awkward just because you are a newcomer in this field. Start slowly by kissing more aggressively and using your teeth, but as you get more into the act, apply more pressure on your partner, either by using your hands or your pelvis.
You hold your lover's hair aggressively with your fingers, with your fingers while whispering something dirty or biting your lover's neck. And when you feel comfortable enough, run your nails against your partner's back, deeper with each confident thrust of your pelvis. You will feel wild passion to engulf you somewhere along the way. And before you know it, you'll be all roughed up and ready for a wild, rough time in bed!
15 ways to have sexier rough sex
Pain and pleasure release endorphins, a morphine-like chemical created in the body. You will instantly feel good if you learn to mix pain with sexual pleasure while having rough sex. Here are 15 types of rough sex you can use in bed with your lover. But always remember to avoid getting carried away in the heat of the moment.
#1 Scream and yell. Not all of us are sexual screamers. You will be made wilder when you get roughed up and shed your vocal inhibitions. This will make you feel more relaxed and carefree.
#2 Nibble and bite. Using teeth is always a great way to bring out the animal in you when you're in bed. Bite hard, but not hard enough to draw blood. Focus on erogenous zones like the neck, the breasts, belly, and inner thighs and around the elbows and ankles.
#3 Claw your lover. Scratch with your fingernails. Literally. Running a painful line with your fingernails against the soft skin of your lover's back will send a sexy rush that can cause a lot of pain too. Sexual adrenalin will be pumped in when you're on a sexual high, this will convert all your pain.
#4 Pull each other's hair. Grab a handful of your lover's hair just above the scalp at the back of the head, and tug at it. When you hold your lover by the lower end of the hair, you won't lose your grip and yet, the pain will feel more pleasurable.
#5 Aggressive movements. Pound each other like there's no tomorrow, and the aggressive to-and-fro movements will turn both of you on, just as long as both of you can hold on long enough. You have to be careful to apply too much force as you are dealing with fragile body parts here.
#6 The burning slap. Slap each other across the face or the chest, or if you're standing behind your partner who's on all fours, slap their back or their butt. The animal in you and your lover comes out with the searing pain.
#7 Asphyxiation. For many kinky lovers, cutting off the oxygen supply to the brain arouses them to an all-time high. You can choke or throttle them and thereby hurt your lover. You can apply pressure on the neck with suitable massage instead of trying to choke your lover, just place your hands gently on your lover's neck. Professional kinky chokers are used to blocking the oxygen supply completely; you should refrain from doing this to avoid injury.
#8 Abusive words. Ever heard the lines, "say my name!" or "call me a bitch!"? Some lovers adore listening to trashy names and hearing dirty abuses. If your lover's into being called a whore, go ahead and indulge them.
#9 Fantasizing and role play. Whisper dirty words in their ear after holding the partner by their hair as you lay on their side. You can get your lover in the right mood if you have an active imagination.
#10 Force. You have to assume alternatively dominant and submissive roles and force your partner to perform sexual acts. Hold your lover by their neck or hands and force their head down on you.
#11 Whips. If your fingernails aren't painful enough, use short whips. Using a whip you can be more hurting, dominating and insulting to be whipped.
#12 Tie your lover up. Hold their hands firmly with your hands after tying your lover's hands and legs to the bedpost. The helplessness of the situation could turn both of you on, because one of you will be in complete control of the other person. You could also use cuffs instead of ropes.
#13 Spanking. Spanking is the poster-boy of rough sex. Giving a hard smack on the bare bottom is the way everybody visualises of rough sex. You know to smack, so go right ahead and smack them until they turn deep red.
#14 Force yourself on your lover. The rape fantasy. If your partner gets aroused by the thought of being sexually overpowered by a stranger, talk dirty about a fantasy where your lover's being forced into sexual submission by someone else. And as you visualize the scene, make sure your hands continue to play rough with your partner's body.
#15 Toys and gags. Rough toys and gags are not for the fainthearted. But if you want to take that road into rough sex, go right on Incompatible partners and rough sex
But are you in a relationship where only one partner enjoys rough sex while the other doesn't?
If you're having rough sex the first few times, the idea may be intoxicating and arousing.
As they say, never do anything that you wouldn't want to explain to the paramedics. Uncontrolled rough sex can leave a guy broken and a girl bruised. You need to take care of the following warnings.
#1 Broken penis. There are chances for this case when a girl sits down heavily or the guy aggressively penetrates deep.
#2 Penetrating too deep in a hurried motion can damage a girl's cervix which can lead to bleeding or bruising.
#3 It's difficult to control ejaculation and orgasms while having rough sex.
#4 Your protection can get damaged while doing the rough nasty.
#5 Rough sex when it becomes very aggressive can result in tears in the vaginal walls.
Communicate your desires
Rough sex is a lot of fun. It's aggressive, wild, passionate and steamy. But too much of a good thing always makes everything worse. You could ideally use both rough sex and other kinds of kinky sex to give maximum pleasure.
Both of the partners should have a pleasurable and passionate escape, not just for one partner. If something goes wrong in between you should be having a code word to communicate with your lover and get the movement stopped.